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60 Questions to Help Break the Ice on a First Date

60 Questions to Help Break the Ice on a First Date

First dates can be a torturous experience and create a special kind of anxiety with a heightened pressure to succeed. Despite your best efforts to make it comfortable, sometimes the experience can be downright awkward, and your hope is that this will be your last first date.

In order to ensure you are able to break the ice, you need to start things off confidently by immediately putting your date at ease. Questions designed to break the ice, help you learn more about your date and create a connection by replacing small talk with a real conversation.

Once you have successfully managed to break the ice, you can relax and settle into enjoying your date. From a simple series of questions, you can get to know each naturally, find common ground and decide if there will be a second date.

The following is a list of the best possible conversation starters to break the ice on a first date.

 

01“Do you like dancing?”

 

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02“Do you like this place?”

 

03“Have you been here before?”

 

04“What are five things that you always keep in your kitchen?”

 

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05“What’s your number one turn off?”

 

06“What made you choose your school?”

 

07“Do you have a big family? Are you close with your family?”

 

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08“What’s your favorite Disney movie?”

 

09“What is your favorite kind of food?”

 

10“Do you like to hike? If so, where’s your favorite place to go?”

 

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11“What did/do you study there and why?”

 

12“Did you like growing up where you did?”

 

13“What singer/band do you hate the most and why?”

 

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14“Where did you go to college/university?”

 

15“What was the first car you ever owned?”

 

16“Do you prefer apple products or are you more of a fan of PCs?”

 

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17“What kind of movies do you like to watch?”

 

18“What’s your favorite TV show at the moment?”

 

19“What’s your favorite holiday?”

 

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20“What’s your favorite TV series of all time?”

 

 

21“Do you always look this pretty/handsome?”

 

22“Have you ever met anybody famous before?”

 

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23“Do you prefer your partner to dress casually or formally?”

 

24“What would make for your ideal husband/wife?”

 

25“What’s your favorite smell?”

 

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26“What do you like to do when you’re not at work?”

 

27“What little things do you appreciate about life?”

 

28“What’s your favorite junk food?”

 

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29“What’s the funniest joke that you’ve heard recently?”

 

30“What’s your favorite vacation that you’ve ever taken?”

 

 

31“Where did you grow up? Would you ever want to live there again?”

 

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32“What’s one song that holds a really great memory for you?”

 

33“Do you prefer to watch Netflix or Hulu over traditional TV?”

 

34“What’s your favorite restaurant?”

 

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35“If you ruled the world for a day, what would you do?”

 

36“If money wasn’t an issue, what would you spend it on?”

 

37“What are your top three turn-ons in a possible partner?”

 

38“Are you more of a cat person or a dog person?”

 

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39“What would be a hands-down deal breaker in a relationship?”

 

40“Would you say that you’re more extroverted or introverted?”

 

41“How’s your food?”

 

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42“Where has been your favorite place that you’ve lived and why?”

 

43“What three fictional characters would your best friend say are most like you? “

 

44“Are you an outdoorsy person or would you prefer to be inside?”

 

45“What is your favorite summer activity?”

 

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46“What components do you think make for a healthy relationship?”

 

47“Do you like to have things planned out or do prefer to just go with the flow?”

 

48“What’s your favorite way to relax after you get home from work?”

 

49“Which social media do you use often?”

 

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50“Do you like romantic comedies? If so, what’s your favorite one?”

 

51“If you had to choose between watching soccer or football, what would you choose and why?”

 

52“What kind of things do your friends and you do when you hang out?”

 

53“Where are you from?”

 

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54“Do you have any unique/interesting hobbies that I might not expect?”

 

55“Are you typically someone who stays up late or do you like getting up early?”

 

56“What kind of music are you into? Do you have a favorite artist/band?”

 

57“Do you like to travel?”

 

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58“Would you rather have a lot of acquaintances or a few close, good friends?”

 

59“What childhood memory of yours makes you smile every time you think of it?”

 

60“How do you prefer to get the news? Do you like to like to read about it or watch it on TV?”