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30 Best Flirty Texts for Him to Start A Conversation

30 Best Flirty Texts for Him to Start A Conversation

Now and then, ladies, you need to spark some fire or add some spice to your relationship, even if things already seem good.

It doesn’t take so much to remind your darling that you care; it doesn’t slow your roll if you remind your partner how cool they are, frequently.

When you construct flirty texts for him, it sends an amazing signal to your partner that you think of him and think that he is amazing.

If he is feeling amazing, then these flirty texts may encourage your partner to open up and maybe you’ll find them saying more than usual.

You could grow closer by helping them release stored-up emotions and giving them a place where they can just be themselves. They just needed a little nudge.


Flirty Texts for him in the Morning

Here are ten flirty texts you should send in the morning:

01Hey handsome, just wondering if you dreamt of me?
Waking up to this text gives an idea that you probably spent your night either thinking or dreaming of him. If you can tell him, then he is able to take the opportunity to tell you about his dreams of you, especially when he’s not sleeping.


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02I hope you know that every day, my favorite part is thinking about you.
He’ll surely call or text later, wanting to know what those thoughts were about.


03Hello sunshine, guess why today is so special.
He’ll try guessing, Birthday? Valentine’s? Tell him it’s the best because you’ve got him.


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04Hey, do you know how much I miss your voice?
This lets him know that you just like to be around him, listening to him.



05You probably don’t get that you are so amazing.
This message communicates adoration. Be sure to prepare for this question, ‘I am? ‘. I bet he wants to know more.


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06Would you like to know a thing or two about you?
With this, you’ve got him wondering all day. Bet he would make a mental note to ask later.


07Hi, say hello to your dimples for me.
Those dimples would show up immediately with this text and every single time he remembers. He’s probably already typing, ‘so, you love my dimples? ‘


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08Hello cutie, sure wish I could wrap my arms around you right now!
This will get him thinking about how nice it is to hold you, too. It is a good way to start a long conversation, right?


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09Hi darling, I bet you can’t tell guess why I’m texting this early.
Trust me, he would have a lot of answers running through his mind but would most likely reply with a ‘Why?’


10Wanted to catch you before your day begins. Did I?
This leaves him with no choice but to answer, and probably explain why.


Flirty Texts for him at Lunch

Here are ten flirty texts for him you can slip in during your lunch break to make him smile.

11Should I be worried about anyone staring at your handsome face?
Who wouldn’t want to ask about the imaginary ‘her’? Plus, he would want to stretch your jealousy a little bit more.


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12Guess who just can’t seem to stop thinking about you?
This is no lucky guess, but he most definitely would ask anyway or even guess wrong on purpose.



13Tea or coffee?
Asking this kind of question out of the blue points out the fact that you’ve been wondering what kind of things he likes and that you would like to get to know him better. He certainly will get the clue.


14I think you’re smile is sexy.
Oh yes, just that. After he catches himself smiling, he will text right back.


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15I’ve got to tell you this: You need to tone down on your cuteness!
Hold on, wait for that text! He’s surely going to ask you what you find so cute about him.


16Guess what I’ll be doing later?
He suddenly would want to know. Feel free to let him have a few wrong guesses.


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17If all my wishes could come true, what do you think I’d wish for?
Whatever his answer is, it’s good enough to start a conversation.


18Who would think I could miss you this much.
By now, his curiosity won’t let him back down. He’s probably wondering what exactly you miss about him.


19I sure wish I could be the screen you have to stare at all day, because I’d love to stare right back at that handsome face.
If he has a pretty assistant, he won’t be thinking about her after picturing you as his computer screen.


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20Hey handsome, guess where I plan on going after work?
He wants to know already. That invitation did not skip his notice.
These texts are sure to garner results, helping you get to even closer with your guy! It’s so easy, you can’t afford not to learn how to develop flirty texts for him.



Flirty Texts for him at Night

In case you are wondering what flirty texts for him would work wonders at night, here are ten texts that you can consider and try out if you dare.

21Are you thinking about me too?
With this text, he has a whole list of options on how to keep the conversation going.


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22Hey there, I was wondering, do you believe in wishing on a shooting star?
You can find out if he has a romantic/magical side with one question. A story or two may surface.


23I wonder if a day will come where you keep me awake with your snoring lol
This could open up a whole conversation about sleeping habits, snoring, and a flirty future.


24Get off my mind; I need to sleep or… are you up too?
He gets it. You want to talk.


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25Sweet dreams tonight – hopefully they’re sweet enough to tell me about tomorrow.
You are wishing him both a good sleep, and great dreams. Discussing what type of dream could be where this conversation is heading.


26Ever heard of Cupid’s arrow?
Cute way to bring up a somewhat serious conversation about love in a matter of minutes.


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27Miss me much?
You may get a real answer to this, so make sure he knows you are teasing. Maybe a quick follow up with, ‘I could stand to see your face handsome’ or something to let him know you’re playful


28I know right? I can’t stop thinking about me either.
After he’s had a chuckle, he may end up asking what you think is worth missing about you.



29I hope to see you again…in my dream.
Wait, you’ve been dreaming about me?’, Expect something like that and a host of other questions about the dream(s).


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30Hey you, would you like to have lunch together sometime?
Of course! Now you would be talking about schedules, restaurants, and meals.



A sprinkle of these flirty texts for him, here and there, is not bad at all. What’s more, you get to spend time talking with your beloved, getting to know each other or simply enjoying each other.

Even if he’s not one to talk, he’ll end up knowing you think about him morning, noon and night.