We all know the feeling of rejection. At some point in our lives, we surely experienced the pain of being considered “not worthy” or “not good enough” and we do not want to bestow it on another person, right?
That being said, there are times when it just won’t work with a guy – and you have to find a way to reject him without hurting his feelings. Knowing how to reject a guy nicely has its own merits. Aside from avoiding the dreaded “She is a total cold hearted A-hole” reputation, you can also gain a friend, instead of losing one if you reject them harshly.
Seriously though, if you are going to reject a guy then doing it via text messaging is the best route. First of all, you are turning someone down – and they might react negatively.
In case they do, you don’t want to be around them as they are soothing their bruised egos – give them time to work through their let down, and you avoid possible confrontation.
If you know how to reject a guy in a nice way, they will not reject the friendship that you are offering. Just make sure that you don’t mislead them and leave them hanging for more – be assertive that you only want friendship.
Most of the time, you have to make him see that it is not him that is the problem – it is you (and your lack of interest to turn your friendly relationship into a romantic one).
To help you out, here are a list of the effective texts that you can use to reject a guy nicely – and still stay friends afterwards.