Conflict is normal in any relationship but, the adage ‘you shouldn’t go to bed angry’ with your partner just isn’t always possible to accomplish.
The best thing you can do when you find yourself in an argument with your boyfriend is to walk away, clear your mind, and then think about what to text him in order to mend the situation.
Often, it’s not so much about apologizing as it is about acknowledging your role in the argument.
You and your boyfriend might agree to disagree after a fight, no matter how much you love him.
A carefully thought-out message is often a good way to open the lines of communication when it’s time to reconcile.
So, think about what to text your boyfriend after a fight and before you go ahead and send it, make sure it is clear that you are sorry about the fight and that you love him.
Here are some examples of what to text your boyfriend after a fight:
01“I want to apologize for arguing last night when you were trying to explain what happened. I should’ve listened to you.”
02“I want you to know first, that I love you and second, that I’m sorry, and I hate it when we fight. I think we need to talk.”
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03“I hate it when we argue because we don’t give each other a chance to finish what we want to say. I’m ready to listen.”
04“I lost my temper last night, and it led to a fight. I shouldn’t have done that, and I apologize.”
05“Things got way out of hand yesterday and a silly disagreement degenerated into a big argument. Can we talk?”
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06“I’m sorry about my part in our fight. This isn’t a problem we can solve with text messages. Can we meet later?”
07“I understand why you walked away from our argument. We both lost our tempers and said things we shouldn’t have. If you’re ready to talk, so am I.”
08“I’m sorry about the fight we had. If you think about it, it was unnecessary. Call me when you have a chance and let’s talk.”
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09“I don’t think there are set rules for what to text your boyfriend after a fight, and I’m not quite sure what to say, except sorry.”
10“I can’t believe things went as far as they did, and I’m sorry I shouted at you in the restaurant. That’s not who I am.”
11“The argument we had came at the worst possible time. I’d had a frustrating day at work, and I took it out on you. I’m sorry.”
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12“I come from a home where I never saw my parents fight. So last night really scared me. I love you, and I want to work it out.”
13“My friends gave me advice on what to text your boyfriend after a fight, but none of it rang true for me. So, I’ll keep it simple. I love you. I’m sorry.”
14“Our love can conquer all disagreements. I want to work it out. I hope you do too.”
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15“I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings, I had only wanted to express mine as well. But it’s clear I hurt you, which I didn’t want to do. I’m sorry.”
16“I can’t put into words how devastated I felt after our fight. I realized at that moment how much I love you and how important you are to me. Can we talk?”
17“Disagreements are natural in a relationship, but I think the one last night was over something trivial, and I shouldn’t have made such a big deal of it. I’m sorry.”
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18“Our relationship is important to me, and I don’t want it to end over a dispute that can be solved if we both commit to figuring it out.”
19“I Googled ‘what to text your boyfriend after a fight’ because I wanted to find the best way to apologize for how I behaved. It said to be sincere, so: I am so truly sorry for what happened, it wasn’t your fault. I hope you can forgive me.”
20“After we fought, I asked my mother what to text your boyfriend after a fight. She said acknowledging my role in the fight is a great start. I’m embarrassed at how I reacted. You deserved better.”
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21“I didn’t give you much reason to continue to love me after the fight we had. But I want to explain myself to you in person, if you’ll let me. I hope you’ll be able to forgive me.”
22“I showed you a side of me I’m not particularly proud of. I let my anger get the better of me instead of being rational. I’m sorry.”
23“When two people who love each other fight, they need to take a step back and then work together to fix it. I really want to do that with you because you’re my soulmate.”
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24“I need help managing my anger. I know that, but I can’t do it alone. I need you to believe in me so that I can make our relationship better.”
25“If you told me 6 months ago that we would have an argument of this scale, I wouldn’t have believed it. But it happened, and I’m sorry. Let’s fix it together, please.”
26“When I thought about what to text you after our fight, I didn’t have any idea what would be enough to make it better. All I can say, sincerely, is that I know we can work this out. Can we meet later?”
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27“I want to see you in person to apologize to you so that we can start working on this problem between us.”
28“I know it’s a lot to ask you to forgive me. All I can ask is that you give me a chance to show you that I can do better.”
